Sunday, September 30, 2018

"I would pray but ... god doesn't answer my prayers"



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We have heard some powerful stories of answered prayer today haven’t we? That is only scratching the surface. Probably every one of us has a story we could tell. These were chosen because they were pretty clear examples of how God answers prayer.
On the other hand, every single one of us also knows what “not-yet-answered” prayer is like. I prefer “not-yet-answered” to unanswered. We have all had the experience of praying and praying and waiting and waiting, and pleading and begging and it seems that nothing happens. Our most common response to so-called unanswered prayer is to blame God or guilt ourselves which just builds a wall between us and the only one who can answer prayer.
I often hear things like, “I prayed and prayed and God didn’t seem to care. If God cared, he would have healed my child.” Accusing God of not caring builds a wall between us and God.
I often hear things like, “I pray, but God doesn’t hear.” I’ll tell you, I know the feeling of having my voice echo back at me as if I was prying into a bucket. But to blame God for not listening builds a wall between us and God.
I have heard, “God must not be as powerful as I thought because God couldn’t get me that job I really wanted.” Can we really jump from “I didn’t get the job” to God can’t do it? That is a pretty big leap. And it just builds a wall between us and God.
If we keep thinking of “unanswered prayer” as a problem we continue to build bigger and bigger walls between us and God. That’s why I prefer “not-yet-answered” prayer.

We are not the first people to struggle with this.
How long did Abraham and Sara wait for a child? They got so impatient at one point that they took matters into their own hands and Ishmael was born. After 25 years … I said 25 years Isaac was born and God made good on his promise that Abraham and Sara would have a child.
In Psalm 66 that we read today, the Psalmist is trying to figure out why his prayer was not answered and he admits that there may be sin in his heart.
Job, who was among the most righteous of men, is the classic story of believing God wasn’t listening.
Although it is not technically prayer, we see in the gospels that Jesus sometimes denied the disciple’s requests.
At the transfiguration, the disciples tell Jesus “Let’s build tents and stay here to worship you.” Jesus replies no, I have other plans.
In Luke 9, we read about a Samaritan village that did not receive Jesus. James and John asked for fire to come down and consume it. Jesus said something like “I hope you are kidding! That is really not going to happen.”
In Mark 11, Jesus says “Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours.”
But when Jesus himself prayed so earnestly that his sweat was like “drops of blood falling to the ground,” he asked “Father let this cup pass from me. Please don’t make me go to the cross. God get me out of this, please!” Was Jesus prayer answered? Well, it would seem not, because 24 hours later he was in the tomb.
Did you ever think of that? Even Jesus who in the mystery of the incarnation was God in human skin… at least this one time, even Jesus’ prayer was not granted. Our struggle with not-yet-answered prayer seems to be is nothing new and we are in the best of company.

However, I want to reframe this today. You may be disappointed that I don’t give you a magic wand to wave in prayer, or magic words, or enchanted beans, or the deepest answers to this universal question. But I think it will be most helpful if, instead of talking about this as a “problem,” I talk about answered prayer as the intersection of a miracle and a mystery.

First, the miracle.
 We have to abandon the idea that prayer is a transaction as though God works for Amazon; we plug in our credit card number and God sends us whatever we order. We have to give up the idea that prayer is a system of merits and rewards in which we trade our goodness for access to God’s power.
You might say, I don’t believe that, but our trouble with not-yet-answered prayer betrays otherwise. I know where we get the idea of prayer as transaction. It is from passages like Mark 11:24 “Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours.” That passage makes God sound like a cosmic vending machine. I want us to look a little further to see an expansion and clarification of that passage like John 15: 7 “If you abide in me, and my words abide in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be done for you.” John says the same thing “ask and you will receive” but the abiding language helps us to see prayer as a relationship.
When we give up the idea that prayer is somehow magical and embrace the miracle of prayer as relationship, it changes everything.
The first miracle is that God wants to be in relationship with us. It is an absolute miracle that the almighty God, the creator of the universe and each of us, the almighty and powerful God WANTS to be in relationship with us. But that is the wonderful character of God. From the mystery of the relationship within the Trinity to God’s desire to “Make people in our own image,” to God’s repeatedly seeking covenant with the people of Israel, to God becoming flesh in Jesus Christ. The first mystery is the wonderful mystery of a God who wants to be in relationship with us.
The second mystery is that we are able to be in relationship with God. We who cannot comprehend the width or length, or heights or depths of God’s love[1] are created in God’s own image for one reason and one reason only. So that we can be in relationship with God.
Prayer then, is no longer a transaction. It is a relationship. Prayer can no longer be thought of like a business deal. It must be thought of as the miraculous relationship between creator and created, between father and son or daughter, between divine and human. Prayer is relationship.
So, think about all of the relationships in your life. Your parents, your children, your neighbors, business associates, and especially marriage partners. What does it take to maintain those relationships? What does it take to develop a relationship? How do we improve a relationship? Communication is the key to every relationship. Verbal, non-verbal, in writing, or by phone, by text, by email; every relationship is based on communication. All relationships exist on a continuum from being total strangers, to acquaintance, to friend, to partner, to the most intimate of relationships like marriage. And the way relationships develop, the way they grow, the way any relationship moves ahead on the continuum is by communication. I tell marrying couples that communication is the most important and the most difficult part of their relationship. The same is true for our relationship with God. 
Jesus makes it sound so simple “abide in Jesus.” Be in relationship with Jesus.
But think again about your many relationships. Are any of them easy? Are any simple? NO. Let me tell you no relationship is simple. Not even our relationship with God. Prayer is both the most important and most difficult part of our relationship with God. It takes time. It takes energy. It takes commitment. It takes persistence. But it is worth it because prayer (regardless of any results or no results) just the ability to be in relationship with God and prayer is nothing short of a miracle. The miracle of prayer.

I said we were going to reframe not-yet-answered prayer in terms of a miracle and a mystery. The miracle is our ability to be in relationship with and communicate with God. The mystery is God’s will and plan for us. To us, God’s ways are always a mystery.
Jesus acknowledges the mystery in the prayer that he taught the disciples. “Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven.” God’s plan or God’s kingdom are a mystery far too deep for us to comprehend. God’s will is mystifying to us. I’d say that was true even for Jesus. At the rock in the garden, he prayed “if it be your will.” Apparently, God’s will was something of a mystery to him too.
What is God’s will in this situation or that? What is God’s will for this person or that? Is it God’s will that this person live or die? I don’t know. You don’t know. Apparently, even Jesus didn’t know some things. God’s will is a mystery.

If we reframe prayer as the miracle of divine relationship, and mystery of the divine will. Answered prayer, then, happens at the intersection of this miracle and this mystery.

How does that help us when it appears that our prayers are bouncing off the ceiling? How does that help us when our loved one dies anyway? How does that help us when we pray so hard that our sweat falls like drops of blood and we have nothing to show for it?
First, don’t give up. If your prayer has not happened yet, do not assume it can’t or won’t. God does not work on our timelines or on demand. Don’t give up. God says “my ways are higher than your ways and my thoughts higher than your thoughts.”[2] Don’t give up. Don’t become fixated on the one not-yet-answered prayer. Don’t give up. Don’t let it become a wall between you and God, and don’t give up. Don’t give up on your prayer, and most importantly don’t’ give up on prayer in general. Keep the lines of communication open. Don’t give up.
Second, don’t try to place blame. Some will tell you that not-yet-answered prayer is your fault because you don’t have enough faith or you didn’t say the magic words. Don’t believe them. Others will tell you that God failed you. Don’t believe them. Some will tell you that there is no point in praying because God doesn’t care. Don’t believe them. I know blaming someone is the popular thing to do these days, everyone believes we need someone or something to blame. Don’t believe them.
Third, rather than give up or play the blame game go back and engage the miracle that is prayer. Not-yet-answered prayers should call us back to prayer. Not-yet-answered prayer should make us want to go back to God. Not-yet-answered prayer should encourage us to engage even more fully in the miracle of prayer. It should drive us more deeply to the heart of God. Seeking deeper and deeper communion with God and asking God to help us by shaping us to be more and more like him. As we grow closer and closer to God, our prayers will be shaped and molded to look more and more like God’s will. Engage in the miracle and you may find God changing your heart, changing your mind, changing your priorities but that’s ok. Being in relationship will change a person. So let not-yet-answered prayer be a call to engage even more deeply in the miracle of prayer.
Finally, Let not-yet-answered prayer be a reminder that God is God and you are not. Celebrate that the mystery. Celebrate that “God’s ways are higher than our ways and God’s thoughts higher than our thoughts.” Celebrate the mystery. Celebrate that we don’t understand all things, but we do understand one thing. Whether our prayers are answered the way we expect or not. We are loved more than we can imagine. God’s eternal love is a mystery beyond any human comprehension. Celebrate the mystery. We call that celebration AWE. Whether we understand God’s answers or not, we can celebrate that mystery by standing in AWE.
So, let’s stand in awe as we sing, "Lord, Listen to your children praying."





[2] Is 55:8-9

Sunday, September 23, 2018

I would pray but… isn’t it just like talking to myself? September 26, 2018 FUMC

I would pray but… isn’t it just like talking to myself.
September 26, 2018
FUMC
Have you ever browsed the self-help aisle at the bookstore?  Here are a few choice selections…
Act Like a man, Think like a Lady… by who else but Steve Harvey,
 How to Poo on a date, the lover’s guide to toilet etiquette.
 How to write a “How to write” book.
 Or how about  How to lose a person’s interest in 10 seconds: the secret to having no friends by 2012
Really? Now, these are not representative of all the self-help books, but they illustrate how silly the self-help industry has become.
 Christianity is not a self-help religion. Our faith is actually based on the premise that we can’t help ourselves. When it comes to important things we are completely dependent. “I am the vine; you are the branches. Whoever abides in me and I in him, he it is that bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing.”(John 15:5)
I would never deny that there are ways to improve our lives and I would never deny human free will. From a Christian perspective, however, “self-help” is an oxymoron, like “jumbo shrimp,” “Christian self-help” makes no sense.

 So, what are we to do?  We would do well to know the first step in Alcoholics Anonymous: “Admit that we are powerless.”
Imagine you are totally paralyzed and can do nothing for yourself but talk. And suppose a strong and reliable friend promised to live with you and do whatever you needed to be done. How could you show your gratitude to that friend if a stranger came to see you?
Would you honor his generosity and strength by saying, “I can do it myself” and trying to get out of bed to carry him on your shoulders like an MVP at the end of the game?
No! You would say, “Friend, please come lift me up, and would you put a pillow behind me so I can look at my guest? And would you please put my glasses on for me?” And then you would say something like “Thank you.  I don’t know what I would do without you.”
From that, your guest would see the generosity and dedication of your friend.

Friends, the truth is, as Jesus says, we can do nothing without him… at least not anything important. That doesn’t stop us from trying though does it?
We are driven by the urge to self-help. We try to live life on our terms. We try to fix ourselves, try to make our own decisions, and like 2-year-olds we cry, “I can do it myself.” But the truth is we are more paralyzed and powerless than we even realize.  Jesus doesn’t say “apart from me you can’t do much.”  He says “apart from me you can do nothing”… nada…zilch… zero. 
On the other hand, in Matthew 19 Jesus looked at the disciples and said, “With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.”

Take your pick… nothing or all things… powerless or all power.  It is up to you.

 Even since I have started this series on prayer I have heard folks describe how strange prayer seems.
“Isn’t prayer just like talking to myself?”
“It is hard to talk to an invisible person.” 
“I just feel self-conscious and don’t know what to say.”
Let me tell you, prayer is as far from talking to yourself as you can get.
Prayer has nothing to do with talking to an invisible person.
There is no reason to feel self-conscious. Over ½ the people report praying daily, and ¾ pray at least once a month.

Last week I said that we were made to pray… this week I want to add we need to pray. Until we admit our powerlessness, we are alone…trying to do it ourselves. Once we admit our powerlessness, we can reach out to the one who is more powerful than we can imagine.


 Our story from Acts is a great example. Paul and Silas were in jail.  Let me tell you why. On Paul’s second missionary journey he left Caesarea and headed for modern day Turkey. As he made his way through turkey he seemed to be blocked in every direction. Then he had a dream of a  man from Macedonia standing on the shore calling to him.  He immediately set off toward Macedonia, modern-day Greece. There he met and baptized Lydia.
When he got to Philippi, there was a slave girl who worked for her master as a psychic. She kept bothering Paul. He eventually cast a demon out of her and she was no longer psychic.  Her master was furious and brought Paul up on some trumped up charges. The man incited the crowds against Paul and Silas and they were stripped, beaten, and imprisoned in a maximum security cell with leg irons and extra guards.
That’s where our scripture reading picks up. At midnight, they were still praying and singing.  The other prisoners were amazed… and probably a little irritated that they couldn’t sleep.
Then the miracle… as they were praying and singing there was a great earthquake… and every door in the prison flew open.  No accident I would say. I smell the hand of God there.  The prisoners could have run, but they didn’t.  When the jailer saw the doors all open he was about to take his life before the governor did it for him.  Paul said, “No, we’re all here.  No one has run.” 
The guard was amazed at the faith of these men and he asked, “What must I do to be saved.” They began to tell the guard about Jesus. The jailer took them to his house where they taught about Christ all night. In the morning they baptized his whole family.  The message Bible says “it was a night to remember.” I’ll bet it was.
But notice how powerless they were… in prison,  maximum security, leg irons, guards… powerless. Paul and Silas could have lost hope.  They would almost certainly die there, right?  Powerless.
They prayed. They didn’t lose hope.  They prayed and sang. Prayed and sang!
They were powerless. But they prayed right there in front of the guards and prisoners and everybody. They prayed because they believed in the power of prayer.
And what happened… an earthquake. Not just an earthquake. A huge powerful earthquake. And suddenly everything was different.  Paul and Silas were no longer prisoners. Neither were the others in jail.  The guard thought life was over but his life was saved, physically and spiritually by what? The power of prayer.  Paul and Silas’ prayer set in motion this whole chain of amazing events that ended with everyone being free, everyone being saved, everyone coming to Jesus.
 Prayer changes things. In this story, it changed everything, but it can change your life too.


What imprisons you? What has you cornered? What keeps you from being the best you can be? What holds you back? What doors won’t seem to budge?
Is it your attitude? A relationship that sucks the life from you?  Your job or one of your classes? The tricks your brain plays on you with depression or anxiety?  Is it an addiction? A compulsive worry? What is the name of your prison? Is it “unforgiveness,” “grief,” “fear,” “pain,” “envy?”  What shackles your legs and keeps you from jumping for joy? Is it business? Is it regrets? Is it .. good grief I don’t know. What is it that you need to change in your life?
Admit that you are powerless.  Admit that you need to pray. And let the power of God lose through prayer.
Don’t get me wrong. Prayer does not absolve us from doing everything we can including learning, and growing, and medical care, and taking responsibility, and doing our best. But my point is no matter how much you do you can’t change the world, other people, chronic illnesses, unforgiving friends, or a thousand other things.  You can’t change those things but God can… if we pray.
Maxie Dunam asked a question 35 years ago that has just haunted me. It has also driven me to an unshakable belief in the power of prayer. He asks “What if, there are some things that God will not or cannot change until people pray?” Just consider… what if?
 Far from talking to yourself or talking to the invisible man, prayer is the key for you to unlock the most powerful force in the universe. Prayer is the means by which God works in you, through you, around you, because of you, and even in spite of you to do his will on earth just as it is in heaven.  Prayer is the door through which God accesses your human imagination, your will, your knowledge, your cooperation, your relationships in order to make us and the people around us more like him. And prayer is the power by which God takes people like us and changes the world.



Your choice… sit in prison feeling sorry for yourself… or unleash the earthshaking, door jarring, chain breaking, prisoner freeing, life-changing power of prayer into your life and world. What will you do?



Sunday, September 16, 2018

September 16

I am not posting a text week because God worked on the sermon so drastically since I wrote it on Thursday.  Please go to the facebook feed https://www.facebook.com/carroll.fumc  to watch the service to see this week's sermon. 

When it is posted on the website ( I think Vimeo) you can watch there too http://carrollunitedmethodist.org/message.php?topicID=29735&

Terry

Saturday, September 1, 2018

Mirror, Mirror on the wall do I look like Christ at all? CFUMC 9/2/18

Mirror, Mirror on the wall do I look like Christ at all?
 CFUMC 9/2/18
When you look at your reflection in the mirror, what do you see?  What do you see?  Do you see a beautiful woman? A handsome man? Do you feel pleased about the reflection that stares back at you?  Or do you always find an imperfection?  Do you always find something that needs to be changed, or removed?
 Some people do not like to look at them self in the mirror at all, because it reminds you of all those things that need to be changed.
Others spend a lot of time in front of the mirror trying to fix those things.
Others spend hours in front of the mirror to admire themselves.
Still others just don’t care enough to pay attention to the mirror at all.
Looking in the mirror is not always pleasant, like first thing in the morning. I understand mirrors in bathrooms, but really? Is that what I want to see first thing in the morning?  Creases on the face, hair like a wild animal, eyes half open, Really?  More and more I wonder who that old guy is looking back at me.
Mirrors are brutally honest. Sometimes a little too honest.  They don’t compromise.  They don’t gloss over our defects. They don’t spare our feelings.  They don’t give empty compliments.  They show us every wart, wrinkle, freckle, scar, gray hair & pimple.
So why do we all have mirrors?   We need them. We need them precisely because mirrors don’t lie.
 We all know the line “Mirror, Mirror on the wall, who’s the fairest of them all.”  It comes from Snow White where the mirror could not tell a lie even if it was not what the wicked queen wanted to hear.
Mirrors will not lie to us either. We are not always honest with ourselves. Our egos may distort our perception. We may wish things were different. We may make excuses. We may try to gloss over our weakness. But whether we like it or not, for good or for ill, the mirror tells the truth the whole truth and nothing but the truth. And even if it seems like a kick in the seat of the pants we NEED to see ourselves as we are. We need that moment of complete honesty. We need checks and balances for both our self-image nor the cultural image in order to see ourselves as we really are.
            Spiritually, scripture and prayer are our mirrors.  We stand before God’s holy word.  We bare our hearts to God in prayer…and we come face to face with our true selves whether we like them or not.  That is what James is talking about at the end of the first chapter.
  “Be doers of the word, and not merely hearers who deceive themselves. For if any are hearers of the word and not doers, they are like those who look at themselves in a mirror; for they look at themselves and, on going away, immediately forget what they were like.”
As Christian disciples, when we look in the mirror what should we see?  We ought to be able to see a little bit of Jesus.  Thin: sermon on the mount. Think: the way he treated everyone including women and foreigners. Think gentle strength. Think intimate connection to God.  That is what we ought to see in the mirror.
I think James has two scenarios in mind when he wrote this. One is the disciple who looks into the mirror and does not see Jesus. In the preceding verses, James talks about things that we should not see.
  Starting in verse 19  James writes, “You must understand this, my beloved: let everyone be quick to listen, slow to speak, slow to anger;  for your anger does not produce God's righteousness. Therefore rid yourselves of all sordidness and rank growth of wickedness, and welcome with meekness the implanted word that has the power to save your souls.”
I look at that list as I look at my image in the mirror and I see a lot of blemishes and wrinkles.
How often do I speak before I finish listening, or at least I am formulating my reply instead of listening?  … I am afraid I am way too quick to talk sometimes.
 Anger… we won’t even go there… anger is like a big glaring zit on the end a person’s nose that is pretty hard to hide or ignore.  I suspect I am not alone.
Sordidness… we might not know what it means, but we are pretty sure it is ugly right?  Well, it is. Webster defines it as “baseness or grossness.” The Greek word means “filth or pollution;” particularly moral filth and moral pollution. That helped me to understand because we all know pollution is something that doesn’t belong where it is. It spoils the land, water, or air.  Are there things that don’t belong in me as a Christian?
Even worse is the “rank growth of wickedness.”  Has your life been taken over by weeds?  Is it overgrown with things that should not be there?  I know I occasionally find a weed or 10 in my life.
James is talking about looking in the mirror and finding ourselves coming up short and Then we read that famous line,  “But be doers of the word, and not merely hearers who deceive themselves. For if any are hearers of the word and not doers, they are like those who look at themselves in a mirror; for they look at themselves and, on going away, immediately forget what they were like.” 
 These folks look into the law … they look into the scripture and know that they don’t measure up.
They know that we are to be  “imitators of God, as beloved children”
They know that they are to “present themselves to God as one approved, a workman who does not need to be ashamed”
They know Paul writes, “Be imitators of me, as I am of Christ.”
     They know that we are to “Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus.”
  They know that we are “not to be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind
They know they don’t measure up but they walk away and forget.
Like looking in the mirror and seeing your hair is all wild and wooly but by the time you look away to get the brush, you forget how bad you look and you go on with your day.
Like looking in the mirror and seeing a big stain on your shirt and by the time you get to the closet you forget what you were doing and go on your way.
            Notice the problem is not what they see, but their lack of response to what they see.

 Then James goes on to another scenario, “25 But those who look into the perfect law, the law of liberty, and persevere, being not hearers who forget but doers who act—they will be blessed in their doing.”
Those who see their faults, their pollution their weeds and do something…. What does James say?  They will be blessed in their doing.
This is a simple call to action. a call to active discipleship. In other words, keep growing.  Keep seeking to look a little more like Jesus every day. Keep striving to have the mind of Christ. Keep working to live with the heart of Jesus.  Keep trying to live with the acceptance Christ exhibited.  Keep seeking a more intimate relationship with God in prayer.
Christians are not perfect.  No one especially God expects that of us in this life.  But we ought to be on our way to perfection. We call that sanctification. Sanctus is the Greek word for HOLY.  Sanctification is the process of the Holy Spirit helping us to become more and more holy each day.
Those who see their spiritual flaws in the mirror and do nothing are resisting sanctification.
Those see their flaws and try to be more like Jesus each day… are on the way.

So which are you?  Are you a hearer that forgets, or a hearer that acts?

One more thought here. What does God see when God looks at us?  Imagine that the mirror is actually a one-way mirror. As we are looking at ourselves, God is looking at us from the other side. What does God see?
God, of course, sees us as we are, pollution, weeds and all. God knows your every flaw and weakness.  God knows your every slip and omission.  God knows us better than we know ourselves and God sees us perfectly.  Honestly. Completely.
The good news is that when God looks at us in the mirror God sees more than the pollution and weeds. God sees beyond our flaws and weaknesses.  God sees past our slips and omissions.  God sees us more truly than we see ourselves. God sees us perfectly.  Honestly. Completely.
And what does God see? God sees beloved children,
The story in Genesis goes like this: “Then God said, ‘Let us make people in Our image, to be like Ourselves; they will be masters over all life, the fish in the sea, the birds in the sky, and all the livestock, wild animals and small animals.’ So God created people in His own image.  God patterned them after Himself.  Male and female, He created them.  God blessed them (gave them the blessing of creation) … and the passage concludes  “And so it was. Then God looked over all that He had made, and He saw that it was excellent in every way”
Hear that… when God looks through the window at us, he sees us as excellent in every way!
In some ways what we see is irrelevant compared to what God sees. No matter what we see.  No matter the ugliness.  No matter the failure.  No matter the wrinkles and blemishes.  God sees the most excellent you and the most excellent sons and daughters.
When I look in the mirror I can be pretty hard on myself… but God’s view is a different view… it comes not from the law of should’s and ought’s that we all have playing in our minds.  God’s view comes from “the perfect law that gives freedom” James says.   The way I read that it is the law of grace.
What does God see when God sees us in the window?
Consider this… no matter what you see, God sees one of the beloved creatures that he declared “very good” at creation.
No matter what wrinkles we see, God sees the inside that is made new in God’s love.
No matter how mussed our hair, or scarred our face, God sees the heart that more than anything wants to be like him.
You are beautiful to God, because God designed you, and God created you, just the way God wanted you to be. In God’s image.  You are God’s child, and you’ve been created in God’s image. And nothing can change that. No amount of sordidness or wickedness in our lives can disguise the fact that we are made in God’s image.
Mothers are universally proud of their babies. I’ve never known a mother who didn’t think her newborn baby was the cutest, most wonderful, and most beautiful in every way.   That’s the way God is too.
I once knew a family who had a baby with a cleft palate.  A wonderful child, but not what the world considers perfect or beautiful. Do you think the mom had any qualms about showing off her “beautiful” baby?  Not a bit. (and I respected her for that.) In her eyes, her baby was more than what the world saw on the outside.
In God’s eyes, we are more than we see on the outside when we look int the mirror.
I want you to know, today, no matter what you see God sees you through the window of his love and grace.  God loves us, and each one of us is beautiful, BEAUTIFUL in His sight.
I am not saying that what we see is unimportant. It is very important that we seek to be more like Jesus every day. What I am saying is that no matter what you see good, bad, or ugly… God loves you including your good, bad, and ugly.

Mirror mirror on the wall… do I look like Christ at all?
To be honest with you, yes but not as much as I would like. How about you?
So I have to remind myself and I remind you, “Mirror mirror on the wall, God’s excellent love is in us all.” AMEN