Sunday, February 16, 2014

The way of life RUMC 2-16-14


Better late than never…
A watched pot never boils…
You break it, you buy it…
Wake up and smell the coffee…
Get your ducks in a row…
It isn't whether you win or lose that counts, it's how you play the game…
If you can't stand the heat, get out of the kitchen…
There are no small parts, only small actors…
A rising tide lifts all boats…

 Then there’s my favorite. ‘Tis better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak up and erase all doubt.
We are all brought up with proverbs. Maybe your parents used them, maybe your grandparents … I suspect each of us has SOMEONE who was the source of our proverbs.

I even ran across a modern proverbist-   Randy Hasper regularly prints original proverbs on his blog called modernproverbs.net.
•             Insecurity laughs in the face of safety.
•             A great skill is borne out of a determined incompetence.
•             The present is the illusion that time is standing still.
•             Love is a risk; hate is a sure thing.
•             To eat tomorrow, throw seed today.
•             Life is risky, death a sure thing.
 Most of the proverbs we learn have a grain of truth in them. They teach us about life and living. They teach us about relationships and roles. They teach us about priorities and proper living.
Then there are proverbs that are just plain wrong
•             Like In a marriage “Look out for number one” is a sure recipe for disaster.
•             “If it feels good do it” is a leads to hedonistic anarchy
Today we are going to look at the book of proverbs because we have been talking about Solomon and Solomon is the primary author of the book of proverbs, as well as Ecclesiastes, and Song of Solomon.
These three books along with the book of Job, and parts of the Psalms form what we call The Old Testament Wisdom literature. Wisdom literature is more about the lesson than the story. In fact, if you read it, you noticed that there is no story in proverbs. The lesson of wisdom literature is teaching us a way of life.
Wisdom is defined in the dictionary as “the ability to discern what is true or right. Therefore, our English word "wisdom" has both moral implications--discerning what’s right--and intellectual implications--discerning what’s true.
The Hebrew word for wisdom is a little more interesting. It is usually associated with a skill or ability. It might be skill in a craft like woodworking or stone dressing, or it might be skill in leadership or teaching.
Biblical wisdom, then, is the skill of living. Timothy Peck says, “It is the art of Living with the grain” of life. Like the grain of wood. It is much easier to work with the grain than against it. Wisdom is discerning the “grain” or the direction of life that God has created and, rather than fighting it and living against the grain, it is living in that direction. It is understanding that God is the creator of life and discerning the basic building blocks of that life. Therefore, some of the great themes in Proverbs are humility, honesty, righteousness, friendship, hard work, and wealth or lack of wealth. Understanding current of creation and swimming with the current rather than fighting against it is the essence of the wisdom message.

Now a proverb is a short memorable saying that points out this grain or current. It teaches about living with God and our neighbor. One of the most famous modern proverbs is “Life is like a box of <<__________>>,” Forest Gump. There is also, "sticks and stones<< ____________>> but words <<________________>>. “ See these proverbs get into our collective consciousness to shape who we are and the way we live. The goal of the book of proverbs is to get into our consciousness, or under our skin, or on the tip of our tongue so that we will live, not the Forest Gump way, or the world’s way, but God’s way.

There is truth in the proverbs. Is every single proverb true in every single circumstance? NO. I was telling Dian this week that you shouldn’t dissect the proverbs. You have to let them sit in your consciousness and let the meaning soak in without dissecting them. 
She was complaining about Proverbs 1:17, “How useless it is to spread a net
    while all the birds are watching!” She was saying birds aren’t that smart enough to understand what a net is. That is the kind of proverb that you might say is not true, but isn’t there a grain of truth in it. Perhaps don’t do in full public view the things that ought to be done in private?
Or someone else was commenting on proverbs 10:27 which says,” The years of the wicked will be short.” Is that true? Often it is, but not always for instance, how old is Fidel Castro now?
No, we can’t take the proverbs too literally, but we use them as sign posts to point us to the truth of how God’s world usually works, and how we should be living in it.

There are three things I want to point out this morning about proverbs. You might call them fountains of wisdom.

 The first fountain is what proverbs calls “Fear of the Lord.” Proverbs 1:7 says, “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge, fools despise wisdom and instruction.”
 Now, we hear the word “fear” and think “afraid.” I don’t usually preach that we should be afraid of God though, looking at our culture and the news, a little more afraidness might not hurt us.
 In Hebrew the sense of fear of the Lord, however,  is not being afraid of the Lord, but respecting the Lord, honoring the Lord,  showing reverence to the Lord.
It makes me think of CS Lewis the chronicles of Narnia.’
Lucy and Susan are just about to meet Aslon the lion that represents Christ. When Susan asks if it is safe to meet a lion Mr. Beaver says, “Who said anything about safe? Of course, he isn't safe. But he's good. He's the king, I tell you!"
That’s just like living before God. Should we be afraid of God? Probably! Except, we know that God is good. He is our savior.
It is the same kind of fear I feel every time I stand before you to preach. Do you scare me? No. Does God scare me? No, but I hold so great respect the act of preaching that I do it with fear and trembling.
That is the first fountain of wisdom, knowing enough to stand with respect and fear and trembling when we come before the Lord

 The second fountain is in the proverbs 6 passage I selected. “There are 6 things that the lord hates, 7 that bring an abomination on him.” First of all the 6 and 7 formulation are poetic instruments. There are 7 things on this list.
•             Pride
•             Lying
•             Murder
•             Planning wickedness
•             Eagerly Doing evil
•             False accusations
•             And breaking up a family.
My point, however, is not the 7 things themselves. The second fountain is to know that there are things God won’t tolerate. Knowing that there are clear boundaries in life. There are lines we are not intended to cross.
•             We are not intended to cross the line between feeling good about ourselves and pride.
•             We are not intended to cross the line between truth and lying.
•             We are not intended to cross the line that leads to murder etc.
•             We are not intended to cross the line of planning of doing evil
•             We are not intended to cross the line of false accusations
•             We are not intended to cross the line of breaking up a family.

You get the idea. The important thing is knowing that what we do matters. It not only matters to those around us, it matters to God. 
We live in a culture where many people consider everything relative. Something is only wrong for me if it feels wrong to me. The world tries to convince us that there is no absolute right or absolute wrong. It is all relative to who perceives it.
That is not God’s perspective though. God’s perspective is that there is right and wrong. There are things God hates. There is a line that God draws across which we are not supposed to go.
Wisdom is knowing that there is a right and a wrong, and always seeking to know the difference.

So the first fountain is fear of the lord. The second is knowing right from wrong. The third is from the proverbs 13 passage. It ends with the sentence “Those who despise the word bring destruction on themselves, but those who respect the commandment will be rewarded.” In other words knowing right, it is doing it.
 It is one thing to know in theory how to fix my car. However, in reality I can no more fix my car than my mechanic could write a sermon.
It is one thing to design a building, it is completely another to build it.
It is one thing to know right from wrong… it is an entirely different thing to do right and avoid wrong. That is what the proverbs are all about giving us hundreds of concrete examples of the contrast between right and wrong.
•             Those who guard their mouths preserve their lives; those who open wide their lips come to ruin.
•             The appetite of the lazy craves and gets nothing; while the appetite of the diligent is richly supplied.
•             Wealth hastily gained will dwindle, but those who gather it little by little will increase it.
The proverbs give us hundreds of concrete examples of the contrast between right and wrong.
•             Can they cover every situation we would ever encounter… no
•             Can they be universalized to meet every need we could ever have…no
There is, however, truth- real truth- God given truth in each one. That truth teaches us to do right, and avoid wrong.

 When you picture success in your life what do you see? 
•             A big house several cars, a boat, a dog and 2.5 kids?
•             Do you picture traveling at will?
•             Do you picture early retirement or working as long as you are able?
There’s nothing wrong with any of those pictures of success, but God has a different picture drawn in the book of proverbs.
•             God pictures people who respect and worship him
•             People who know their right hand from their left, in other words right from wrong.
•             And people who seek with all their hearts to live the way God wants them to live doing the right thing or the righteous thing
To live wisely we need to redefine success. We need to abandon the search for meaning within ourselves or within the world. We need to give up the desire for self-fulfillment. We need to give up the quest to do things our way. And start seeking the God who deserves our respect and worship. Start seeking the knowledge of right and wrong, and start choosing right over wrong, God over bad, God over all else.


AMEN

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