“Child
of Blessing, Child of Promise”
July
31, 2011
RUMC
How
many of you have been to a family reunion this summer? <<ß--à>>>
Actually, my Mom’s side of the family has their reunion today. Family reunions are one of those things that
are often stranger than fiction.
·
No
one would find a character named “uncle frog” to be believable. But I have one.
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No
one could script grandpa taking out the garbage after the reunion and losing
his pants as he set the garbage can down on the curb. But one of my aunts snapped a picture as
proof.
·
No
one could fabricate some of the tricks cousins play on one another or the silly
arguments and competitions that are perpetuated from year to year.
·
And
who could make up someone carrying a grudge because of the great potato salad
debate.
Family
reunions are wonderful and strange things.
As
we gather in the park today it kind of feels like a family reunion. And in a theological sense, every time we
gather for worship we are having a family reunion. We are the family of God. Like any family, we have our oddballs. We have our lovable characters. We have our family stories and our family
traditions. One of our great traditions
is this weekly family reunion that we call worship.
Today,
as we gather for our reunion, we have a special guest. This is Alex’s first family reunion, at least
his first reunion with the family of God.
So I want to welcome him.
Welcome to the
family reunion, Alex. You don’t know
most of these people, but over there is cousin <<ß--à>>>.
Here is Aunt <<ß--à>>>.
Grandma<<ß--à>>>.
Cousins <<ß--à>>>and <<ß--à>>>.
Here are brother <<ß--à>>> and Sister<<ß--à>>>.
One
of the things you will see, ALEX, IS
THAT we like music. We sing a
lot. There is a song that is not all
that familiar to us, when you can read you will find it at number 611 in our
hymnal. I thought I would share the
words to that hymn and some thoughts about baptism today.
“Child of blessing, child of promise, baptized with the
Spirit’s sign; with this water God has sealed you unto love and grace divine.
Back
in May in the University Hospital, you were baptized with the spirit’s
sign. The water is the sign of the spirit. You won’t remember that. But those of us, who do, know that what
happened that day changed your life forever.
That day you became part of this family; and no matter how hard you try,
you can’t get away from that.
You see our birth family and its DNA
influence us more than we would think.
Just as you hair and eyes and skin and even your heart defects were
determined by your DNA
In 1980, the Smithsonian magazine ran a
story about the Jim Twins.
This pair of twins was separated at
birth and raised by different families.
Strangely enough, they were both named Jim. But that is only the beginning. After meeting at the age of 39, they
discovered that both had childhood dogs named Toy. Both had been nail
biters and fretful sleepers. Both had migraines. Both had married
first wives names Linda, second wives named Betty. They both named their
first son James Allen. For years, they
both had taken vacations on the same Florida beach. Without being aware
of the other’s existence, both drank the same beer, smoked the same brand of
cigarette, loved stock car racing, and disliked baseball. They both left regular love notes to their
wives, made doll furniture in their basements, and had added circular white
benches around the trees in their backyards. Their IQs, habits, facial
expressions, brain waves, heartbeats, and handwriting were nearly
identical. The Jim twins lived apart but died on the same day, from the
same illness.
How’s that for spooky?
The lesson is, our DNA has a tremendous influence on who we are. Our spiritual DNA, being born part of God’s
family makes us who we are. It shapes
who we are and influences who we will become.
The song says, “God has sealed you.”
Remember that. God has sealed
you- In Baptism God places his DNA inside of you; inside of each of us. That DNA identifies us as children of God and
joint heirs with Christ. In a spiritual sense,
we are each identical twins with Jesus. Alex, your spiritual DNA has been set. Your spiritual identity has been sealed. God sealed you with the DNA of his son and
our savior Jesus the Christ. Now it is
your families’ job- both you biological family and your church family. . . It is your families’ job to help you grow up
to live, and love, and look like Jesus.
The second verse of the song says “Fresh
from God refresh our spirits, into joy and laughter lead.” Let me
tell you a secret, ALEX. Your baptismal
DNA is not sad and sober. It is not
serious and somber. It is not dull. This is a place - this family of God is a
place to love and laugh; it is a place to experience joyfulness and happiness
and peace. Today, you have no worries
(well, except your bottle and your diaper) but basically you have no
worries. I pray that you will stay that
way.
Frankly, there are a lot of Christians walking
around looking like they are always wearing a messy diaper. Some even smell like it. Don’t let them fool you. They are not like that, because they are
Christian.
There are a lot of reasons people loose joy and
laughter. But God is not one of
them. God is the creator of Joy, the
inventor of laughter. God enjoys a good
belly laugh. Why else would he make blob-fish
and hairless cats?
Alex, the Bible says, “Rejoice in the lord
Always, and again I say rejoice-“that is the way to live. Whatever life may bring you. God fills us with joy, may that joy come
bubbling out of every poor and orifice in your body- today and always.
In the third verse, the song we sing, “Back
to God we humbly give you, Live as one who bears Christ’s name.” You already have three names- Alexander-
Nicholas- and Mohlis. Historically we
call the first name, Alexander, your Christian name. At one time people didn’t officially get
their first name until they were baptized.
Alexander Nicholas is a fine name, but when I baptized you, I gave you a
third name. One that does not appear on
your birth certificate. One that won’t
appear on your driver’s license.
However, it is important.
The name
I gave you is the name that is above all names.
When I baptized you, I baptized you in the name of . . . everybody together <<ßfather son and Holy Spirit ->>>.
That new name is one that you bear all your
life. Some people are named after
parents, or grandparents, or uncles or respected friends. When we are baptized, we are named after
Christ. You are named after Jesus Christ
himself.
Bishop Palmer used to say that his mother
always had the same thing to say to him when he left the house. Gregory, remember who you are. She meant remember you are a Palmer and don’t
embarrass the name. Today I want to say Alex- in all
you do remember who you are. Wherever
you go remember who you are- in every decision you make, in every word you say,
every action you make or don’t make you are reflecting the one after which you
were named.
I frequently hear stories about people who are
turned off Christianity because of the behavior of one or two people. “If that is the way Christians behave I don’t
want anything to do with them,” is the attitude. Or maybe it is an excuse.
But either way, it serves to remind us that
someone is always watching, so live knowing that you have been named after
Jesus the Christ and remember who you are.
Finally
the song says,”Grow to laugh, and sing and
worship, trust and love god more than all.”
You
are just tiny now. Look around at all
the big people. Look how much bigger my
hand is than yours. You will grow.
I
am interested when I have occasionally seen people hang tomato plants upside-down. It amazes me that they grow, but what is
really interesting is to see the stems twisting and turning up to face the sun. That is the way they are made- whether they
are right side up or upside down they seek to face the sun for maximum light.
That
is the way you are made too. Sometimes we
get upside down in our lives. Our
thinking, our behavior, our decisions, our character, our values just get upside-down. Always remember, you were not made for
that. None of us are.
They
used to say, if people were meant to fly God would have given them wings. Today I tell you- if you were meant to live
without God, you would be all powerful and all knowing. You are not.
You might think you are.
Sometimes we all make the mistake of thinking that we are God. But I am not and neither are you.
You
are made to stand on your feet with your hands and face raised up to the one
who made you, the one who keeps you, and the one who will guide you forever. “Trust and Love God more than all.”
Alexander
Nicholas, you are a child of Blessing, you are a child of promise. Your baptism means that you are a child of
God, along with each and every baptized person here, in all places and in all
times. Bless you and thank you for
blessing us with your presence today.
AMEN